November already. The last couple of weeks have been busy house hunting. What I fortunately remember of my Zen reading is the importance of not getting attached to possible outcomes or results. I am looking for a house and it became apparent that if I became attached to getting a specific condo, I would lose my ability to choose freely and to stop my offer at what I set it to be a fair value for me vs what the seller wants to get. Not getting attached comes from an abundance mentality in that there will be other condos on the market in my price range vs "Oh! I can't let this pass, what if I don't find another condo I like?".
Trying to force the outcome stems from fear instead of freedom.
Coaching tip: be aware of the areas of your life where you try to force the outcome and learn to trust that something better is on its way.
Marguerite Tennier, M.A.http://www.canadascoach.com